Something to share

What to share ?
I don't know...

Hmmm....
Ok,
I am woman in her fifties, short, round and my hair is red just now, and I love that colour on me.
It represent quite well my... temper... smile.
I am wife, mom and I am paediatric  nurse.
I just LOVE all Three parts of my Life.
I love to be wife, mom and nurse.
I like Music, poetry and I am creative soul.

Ok,
It is enough with sharing..

How do you encurage others ?

How I encouraged other people is related to my personality and what encouraged me.
I wrote about LOVE.
I want show my love to them I love and  I encouraged them do likewise.
I like get hugs, positive word, talk to people.
At work, I often give hugs to my co-workers after a good day and say: good work, it was so nice work with you..
At bad day... they know me, I will say: OK, this is our day, make the best of it. Talk do each others, help to each others.
Yes, I know, I can be a good leader, I have heard it so many times...
Smile.

Always positive encouragement.

But I know as well that I am better at giving such encouragements, then take one to heart myself.
Smile.

What encurages you

This question made me stop for a few days and think.
Hmmm....

So, what encourages me is often a  some kind of positivity, what make me want be better or do better.
Like LOVE.

I love to speak to people, who encouraged me with their kindness, their intellect or what they do.
Nice word or nice music, can do under for me.
A nice word from a friend, a co-worker, makes me want do even better..
Well done at work, can encourage me to do even more, even better..
To see my family , my children do well.. encourage me to do more for them..

But it's also one thing of the negative reality, that can encourage me to do things.
Injustices !!!!!!
I hate, hate, did I say I hate injustices !?!
I hate seeing people being treated badly, unfairly.
That bring out a different personality out of me ..
I call it for " up on the barricades and fight against injustice", personality ..
Yes, I often get bangs, but it is worth it.
Smile.

Advice to ignore

Hmmm... hard question...

I have thought about this for a while and concluded that it is about raising children.
I come from a conservative environment, where children did , what they were told. A child will listen to the first word. There is no need for repetition. We were punished for doing wrong.
We were told that respect lies in discipline.
The best way, in my opinion, is to be a rebel.
And I was the rebel.

This advice I chose just to ignore.
In my world, children are brought up with positive actions, where there is no place for penalties.
And respect is nothing that should be required.
Respect should be earned.
Children can never get too much love.
Just too less.

Something you want to try

Oh, what a funny question.
I want to try so many things, things.
But there are two things I want to do within the next 5 years.
I will walk El Camino in North of Spain and I want to take the course in pottery.
I will use three colours : red, black and blue.
I will.....
In 5 years...
I will.

Your first memory of one friend

I met my best friend, when I was 10 year old.
We went to the same school, but she was in sixth grade and I was in fifth.
I met her and her friends on the break.
And I felt it within me:
"I want to be friends with her."
So I went up to them and said:
"Hey, can I join you? "
Smile.

The rest of this tale is that 41 years later we are still best friends.
We are acquainted with each other's secrets.
We are still each other's backs when needed.
We are friends. whose friendship was created already before we were born.
Me and my friend Dadi.

This week successes

So many of my family members are born in August .
You know, all those strong Lions, who wants to rule the world.
Smile.

This week we had two big celebrations with 10 guests on each.
I organized it and made all the food.
So proud of myself...
We had a very nice time. Three generations together.
Talking all over each other, laughing, eating and drinking, singing..
Like a big, loud family.
Just like I love it.

This week successes:

What does content look like

It looks like a new baked bread or cooked meal.

It looks like family eating together around the table.

It looks like all laugh and all questions children share with their parents.

It looks like have enough of money to do a little extra with family.

It looks like be healthy enough to work and earn money. 

I try to be thankful. .

I know, that all things,  I take for granted, someone else is praying for.

To be patient is difficult.

But I try...

Where you want to be

I want to be in a country 1000 km from my country.
I want to hug my dear friend, who is going towards the end of his life.
I want to see his eyes and look into his eyes and say thank you.
Thank you, my dear friend, for all you gave me.
For all your love,
For all your time.
For all your wisdom,
For all your advice.
For all your kindness.

I can?t even say, how you have enriched my life.
You are the best friend a man could imagine.
Your goodness, made me a better person.
Your thoughts, your quiet way of being, has helped me so many times through the difficulties, You gave me explanation when I needed to understand. how a man thinks.
You were there for me, when life was most  difficult and I just wanted lie down in a fetal position.

You picked me up again and again and made me feel better.
What a wonderful  person you are and what a wonderful friend you are.
I feel blessed to have met you and got to know you , my dear, dearest friend.
I will miss you so much !

But...
I will cope.
Because, I know, you will look after me even from the other side.
If it is possible, you will, and I will thank you for it.
Please, do it...

I love you and you will be with me, in my heart,  to the end of my life.
And then...

Then we will meet again.
Please, meet me there over,  when it is my time to fly home.
Love you, A....

The best parts of fall

Soon it will be autumn here.
In a few weeks, we have here the first autumn day.
Autumn is certainly not my favourite time of year, it's spring.
Yet, the fall has so much  of beauty and life wisdom to offer.









I like the colours that nature dress in.
The leaves turn yellow, red, brown.
On my daily route to work, I see this every year. How  trees begin to turn yellow and then there are  all the colours together, until all leafs are falling down on the ground.
To go and trample on these layers of leaves and kicking them, as I did as a child ... it always makes me smile.
This is a lesson of beauty.




You can really see that nature is dying, as it does every year.
About 6 month later, the circle of life starts again. There will be new leaves, more beautiful   than those that fell to the ground. Often, when something is ending, something better is on its way to us.
This is a lesson of wisdom.




I look forward to light candles in every room, as soon as I get home from work.
It gets darker outside, but it brightens the home.
It is also one of best parts of fall.